The invisible nerves
The invisible nerves
You stub your finger and utter “ouch!!” is already deciphered. Peripheral nerves, spinal cord and brain take care of it.
But, when her pain is realized doubly acute by my nerves, when her smallest folly which can hamper her life , is realized as my biggest folly and when her tiny happiness is celebrated as grand festival by me…With sheer amazement, I started searching for those invisible nerves who connect us and are responsible for these reflexes. I did not find them and may be it will take ages to prove their existence but I will term them as my love nerves.
Thanks to those invisible nerve cells, her expressions and feelings become live without words, her pain and sorrow is realized before tears birth and her joy and bliss are eternally celebrated without cause. How wonderful this relation is!
To all my sisters on this eve of Raksha bandhan.
And this applies to all eternal relations. We name it lovers, friendships, mother-child and many more such distinctions.
We expect
We expect. We expect reciprocated emotions. We expect our mirror images in others. We expect our dream images from others. We also expect stereotype responses based on our past encounters or imitated responses from others’ lives or virtual lives like movies. For example, if in one relation, person A is happy, Person B expects that A will for sure greet and exchange this happiness. Sometimes reactions are also expected. And when we do not get expected response from others, we get irritated, and most irrational response is rude reaction. So rude that it damages equilibrium of relational fluid. Such behavior is completely against the nature. Have you ever seen, mountain expecting river to stop originating becaue river has decided to change to flow direction, earth to stop nurturing seeds as seeds are poisonous or Parent sparrow crying when its newbies fly out of nest and never returns? They have expectations less love relations.
Everyone is always doing their best under the NOW circumstances. In fact, there’s no such thing as irrational behavior or wrong behavior. That’s because, in this moment, given the perceptions someone is holding about YOU, the way they behave is in fact the only way they can behave.
If you don’t like the way someone is acting or responding or behaving; understand, you can’t change his or her behavior, you can only change his/her circumstances. Give him/her change of environment, create environment and to create is the only ( and the mighty one!) thing possible for you, create new YOU instead wasting energy over cursing/crying on unexpected responses.
Song of flower
I am a kind word uttered and repeated
By the voice of Nature;
I am a star fallen from the
Blue tent upon the green carpet.
I am the daughter of the elements
With whom Winter conceived;
To whom Spring gave birth; I was
Reared in the lap of Summer and I
Slept in the bed of Autumn.
At dawn I unite with the breeze
To announce the coming of light;
At eventide I join the birds
In bidding the light farewell.
The plains are decorated with
My beautiful colors, and the air
Is scented with my fragrance.
As I embrace Slumber the eyes of
Night watch over me, and as I
Awaken I stare at the sun, which is
The only eye of the day.
I drink dew for wine, and hearken to
The voices of the birds, and dance
To the rhythmic swaying of the grass.
I am the lover’s gift; I am the wedding wreath;
I am the memory of a moment of happiness;
I am the last gift of the living to the dead;
I am a part of joy and a part of sorrow.
But I look up high to see only the light,
And never look down to see my shadow.
This is wisdom which man must learn.
- Kahlil Gibran
Unscripted Boddhisatva
Unscripted Boddhisatva
How wonderful it is! The rain way of living!……Helps two hearts to meet..The Sky and the Earth…Soothes souls without any motive…gives birth to love….becomes reason for happiness…the tree…the flock…the peacock and so many fellow earthizens…
And my heart…like the sky and the earth…dreams to meet her heart….The rain way
Love
Love speaks in its own way…
sings its own song of joy, of peace, of beauty and blessings…
and for the sole reason…love can be demonstrated easily than defined…
don’t waste time in definitions and explanations…feel the serenity… :)…
here ends the wordily paradox of love, with one more definition of love 
:)
-Nisarg’s conversation with nature.
I found my love Today…my soulmate…Kesha
Dreams
Dreams are distorted episodes of grand mind melodrama; mixture of unfulfilled wishes with daily garbage. You are the director, actor and producer of this mind melodrama.
Learn to extract wishes out of garbage and create grand reality.
-Nisarg
I
“I” means “Freedom personified”.
Once again : Dreams
And it is true for every dream from heart….you dream it and possibilities start taking place somewhere in far distance…it is up to you that how much strong you dream your dreams and at the same time how much wakeful you are to see that dream in reality when it arrives…!
~Nisarg
Real Time
If you are not in real time, you’re
dead. Be here, be in present.
April Fool’s wisdom
Being foolish and chasing dreams is far better than being obedient worker and running in rat race.
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Cosmic Connections